Who we are
The Contact Group sees itself as an interface between the LGBT-subcultures of Munich and Kyiv and other cities in Ukraine; we initiate, moderate, coordinate and carry out projects on our own or in cooperation with the large groups and associations of respective communities. We stand by their side at any time.
In Munich, these organizations are currently LeTRa (Lesbian women), Münchner Aids-Hilfe, Rosa Liste (Pink Party) and Sub (Gay Community Center), shareholders of CSD München, Munich Pride. Also cooperate groups like Aufklärungsprojekt Munich (schools), Daneben (Subculture for women and transgender), Diversity (LGBT-youth), Forum Homosexualität (History of LGBT-movement), Gay Outdoor Club GOC, Gay & Gray, InsideOut Munich (Tennis Club) and Isarhechte (Gay Swimmers). We welcome the lesbian choirs Lilamunde and Melodiva, the mid-age lesbian group MiLes, Münchner Löwen Club MLC (Fetish), Philhomoniker (Gay Choir), the LGBT-choir Regenbogenchor, Team München (Sports Club), TransMann (Transgender) as well as Queeramnesty, QueerCampus (Students), the members of Queergottesdienst (Church), Queerelations (Film network) and VelsPol Bayern (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender policewomen and policemen in Bavaria). We are many!
In Kyiv, entities involved are Fulcrum (Gay and bisexual men: Advocacy, HIV-prevention), Alliance.Global (Gay and bisexual men: Community Center, HIV-prevention, Counselling), Gay Alliance Ukraine (LGBT: Community Building, Mobilisation, Advocacy, Public Awareness) and its Queer Homes, Gay Forum Ukraine (LGBT: Mobilization, Advocacy, PR), Insight (Lesbian women, Transgender: Community Center, Research, Advocacy), Nash Mir (LGBT: Advocacy, Research, Trainings, Human Rights’ Case-Management) and the parents’ initiative Tergo. Also Munich keeps in touch and works with Liga (LGBT: Mobilization, Health Issues, Counselling, Advocacy, PR) in Nikolaev, the Womens’ Network Sphera in Kharkiv and Gender Z (LGBT: Community Building, Mobilisation, Public Awareness, HIV-prevention) in Zaporizhzhia.
In our Contact Group are people, women and men, trans* of all ages from the LGBT-Scene in Munich and Kiev. We come from different backgrounds and bring our individual life and work experiences with us. Everyone is welcome, everyone can make a contribution. Munich Kyiv Queer meets every third Tuesday of the month, we have a core team and people who work with us from time to time.
Wieland is a doctor and he loves his job. His clients know that he is gay. “I’m out and people accept who I am”, he says. It has not always been like that. Wieland came out late as he was very afraid to live openly as a gay man. It was Munich’s LGBT-community, such as Gay Outdoor Club and the city’s gay community centre Sub that gave him the confidence to come out of the closet. He has done a lot for the community since then. When he was board member of Gay Outdoor Club, he made it part of the German Alpenverein which is very conservative. With his husband Uwe he, additionally, founded Munich’s Rainbow Foundation. He wants to give something back. That’s why he came to join Munich Kyiv Queer. Wieland is a caring man, but also tries to make Munich Kyiv Queer work effectively. He is actually good in solving conflicts.
„We reached a lot for the community, KyivPride was and is a big success. But we can go a step forward and change things still in the Ukrainian society, I’m sure about it. Now we must keep going on and support our friends in Ukraine even more.“
swims with the Isarhechte, a gay swimming group situated in Munich. However, he would not describe this as political commitment, but rather as “joyful participation”. He likes to be part of the community. George has a soft spot for everything Eastern European. In 2012, he gave in to his passion for Russia for the first time, moved to Moscow and promptly fell in love. The relationship did not have a future – a consequence of the country’s restrictive policy towards LGBTI. The socio-political climate in Russia made a binational love between two men impossible. Marriage? Children? Forget it! Until today George does not let go of the words of his ex. And it is probably thanks to them that he joined Munich Kyiv Queer. In Ukraine he wants to stand up for equal rights. There his request has at least a chance.
„I hope that through my commitment I can make a contribution to the fact that more and more dreams can be dreamed and lived, regardless of which country one was born in and lives in today.“
is a scientist. He studied molecular biotechnology in Munich and can be quite hands-on. He always keeps an eye on things and meets every difficult situation with humor and empathy. Commitment is important to him. Before Stefan started at Munich Kyiv Queer, he was already active at Diversity, the umbrella organization of Munich’s LGBT youth organizations. Stefan has always been interested in the community of Eastern Europe, which is under pressure in many countries.
„I would like to draw attention to the situation in Ukraine and contribute with words and deeds to a positive development on the ground.“
He has been responsible in Munich’s Gay Community Center Sub for working with the press for several years, recently he joined Munich Pride to take care of its PR. Conrad didn’t know much about Ukraine until the summer of 2012. After he met three guests of Munich’s CSD from Kyiv during the Pride Week to talk about press work on both sides of the Schengen-border, he began to become interested in the lifes of lesbians, gays and transgender there and now he is all fired up on the issue. Conrad organizes the Contact Group and its press work; his husband also co-ordinates the Pride partnership between CSD Munich and KyivPride. His main job is as an independent journalist and editor.
„I greatly admire the courage and political skills of these young activists in Kyiv who don’t let the difficult circumstances get them down.“
has actually found to activism with Gay Alliance Ukraine. In 2015, she started to work for the Ukrainian LGBT-organization. Since then she has dedicated herself to the topic: Olena works in community building, with volunteers, for the Queer Homes in Ukraine and OdesaPride. She values Munich Kyiv Queer’s effectiveness and creative approach. The cooperation between Gay Alliance Ukraine and Munich Kyiv Queer, she says, has already significantly increased volunteering of LGBT activists in the regions.
„I dream of a strong and self-confident Ukrainian LGBT movement. Munich Kyiv Queer inspires me a lot in this respect.“
Of course, Uwe has many duties already. Most time in a week he works for Siemens to earn a living. “And I am working hard to gain some honour working for Munich’s gay community centre Sub, too”, he says jokingly. Uwe is a volunteer. Both jobs are fun for him and give his life a meaning. Uwe is a big lover of human beings. He supports people and gives advice if they might feel they need it. After having given company to his husband Wieland for KyivPride 2013, he now is part of Munich Kyiv Queer. Currently, he’s developing volunteer trainings for Kyiv’s LGBT-community every year and visits OdesaPride nearly every year. He is one of Munich Kyiv Queer’s speakers.
“Visiting Kyiv made me think about Human Rights. I am convinced that our world can improve as a whole when only two human beings start caring for each other. In Kyiv, I learned that this has always to be accompanied by a strong political commitment. “
Swimming has long been a passion for Thomas. Therefore it didn’t take long after moving to Munich in 2008 to jump in with the Isarhechte. The Isarhechte are a lesbian and gay swimming club and without them Thomas wouldn’t have found friends so quickly in a strange city. It showed him how important it is to have a functioning LGBT scene. Now working in international trade, he always had an interest in things eastern, even from childhood as he grew up on the former inner-German border with a view of the Iron Curtain. This sharpened his desire for freedom and justice. He has responsibility for “Kyiv issues” within his sport club.
„I think it is brilliant that the scene in Munich and Kyiv are linked. Our work together has given new impetus to the twin city partnership.“
Katja is the good soul of Munich Kyiv Queer. Born in Ukraine, she has lived in Munich for many years, Katja studied here and most recently worked at the university. She has observed Munich Kyiv Queer’s work as part of the large Ukrainian community in the city for a very long time and then decided to get involved herself. With her ideas, her contacts and her commitment she is a great enrichment for the group. She joined with all her heart, nothing is more repugnant to her than when people are treated unfairly.
„It is about human rights and human dignity in my home country. I want queer people in Ukraine to enjoy equality and social acceptance.“
Naomi ist easily one of Munich’s most famous artists that gets involved for the LGBT -community of her home city. Her works can be seen in many cafés and institutions of the scene, just recently a sculpture from Naomi was unveiled in the Munich City Museum. Naomi wants to engage herself for Kyiv, it is something close to her. Naomi bubbles with ideas. For CSD in Munich, she already created eye-catching art, she regularly exhibitits her work in Ukraine and holds workshops about “Creative Protest”, even a festival in Odesa.
„Whether the LGBTI-community or other minorities are attacked, makes no difference to me. For me, it’s about empowering people to acknowledge and act upon their own positive goals and beliefs. This will help to break through the cycle of unfair and corrupt systems that play people off against each other, to distract attention away from their own negative actions.“
is interested in our work for private reasons: The young activist has family roots in Ukraine. But they never had a strong bond with the country, which he has been touring ever since. In 2018 he visited the Western part of Ukraine and has since been fascinated by everything. The following year, for the first time, he took part in a youth exchange organized by Munich Kyiv Queer between Ukraine and Bavaria. Since then he is a member of our group. Maximilian lives and studies in Augsburg to become a university teacher of English and Spanish. He also works for Augsburg’s Aids-Hilfe – and is involved in HIV prevention ever since. In his earlier life, Max was an intensive care nurse at the University Hospital in Tübingen.
„Munich Kyiv Queer is the perfect platform for me to get involved socially and to establish and maintain contacts with Ukraine.”
It is sometimes frustrating. For years the young activist Stas has been involved in the campaign for rights for lesbians, gays and transexuals in his home country. The scene is, thanks partly to him, more visible, louder, more authoritive. All of Europe gives its support. The community is more of a threat than before though and almost nothing is moving forward at a state level for the sexual minorities in the country. Stas worked for many years for Gay Alliance Ukraine, edited the gay magazine Stonewall and recently finished as fundraiser for the Regional HIV Legal Network that delivers legal support for people who are HIV-positive or somehow affected. He is also part of KyivPride though ne now lives in Munich with his husband Conrad. In his spare time, he works as a photographer, musician and designer – he’s good in so many things.
„Society wants us to stay in our hiding places. But we are here, with our hopes and fears, love and sadness and we will show ourselves.“
has lived and worked in Munich for many years. From a distance, he wants to support the LGBT-community in his home country. Oleksii does this with commitment and in silence. With Conrad, for example, he takes care of our website, but he is also always present at projects and activities when we need help. And that matters, because Oleksii is very busy professionally.
„To be oneself is a fundamental right of every human being. It is precisely then that one is most valuable to society. Acceptance of everyone requires a great deal of action and I am happy to be involved in a great cause with my modest contribution.“
So young, so dedicated. Kamil can quickly get enthusiastic about something when he’s touched. He has been interested in the LGBT movement in Eastern Europe for years, especially in Ukraine. Kamil himself comes from Russia and knows what it means to be excluded as a member of a minority. He loves his country and is wholeheartedly committed to fighting for Human Rights. In 2019, he will take part for the first time in the Ukrainian LGBT choir festival in Odesa with Munich’s “Philhomoniker”, a gay choir.
„Since Ukraine and Russia are unfortunately drifting more and more apart politically, I find it important to at least continue social cooperation, so as not to forget that both countries have a lot in common. The further one lives from home, the better one understands how important this is.“
Olena is a woman with ideas, brave and political, with a talent for organisation and PR. She was once responsible for the press work for KyivPride and is also a board member of Liga, the Nikolaev organisation concerned with LGBT-issues for so many years now. Olena is actually a doctor but nowadays she earns a living in the IT and as coach for kettlebells. Kettlebells were during Soviet times particuarly popular in the East and nowadays in the West, too. The sport brings her the balance that she needs when again she’s annoyed with the situation in her country. She loves to travel, with her wife she is always flying all around the world. Olena does a lot of PR work for the contact group and she always has many ideas for new common projects.
„I am prepared to break the law and go to prison because of any stupid law that wants to ban so called gay propaganda. We will not give up our struggle!“
Sibylle along with many other women, every year, could spend months organising the “Lesbenkulturtage”, a cultural event week especially for lesbian women. This also gives the chance for activists from Ukraine to take part. Since 2016, she’s speaking for Munich Kyiv Queer, too, a group she has co-founded. Having studied Slavic cultures, Sibylle is happy about the Ukrainian project of the Munich LGBT-community. She long argues against injustices and she can be tough. She knows that in the contact group it is not just about one side helping the other. Both sides can learn from each other. Sibylle brings not just her language skills, but her organisational talent. Eastern Europe has always fascinated her.
„I always realise how little we know about Eastern Europe, although it is mentioned in the news almost every day. The contact group is for me the chance to open a window between the cultures.“
Yuri Yourski strongly believes in team work. That is why he joined Munich Kyiv Queer right after having been part in one of our yearly volunteers’ workshop weeks we offer in Munich for Ukrainian LGBT-activists. For years he worked as a Human Rights defender among Gay Alliance Ukraine, one of the biggest LGBT-organisations in the country. Now he is living in Estonia to fight for the Eurasian Coalition on Male Health in Tallinn. The political situation in Ukraine has prompted him to action and gives him much hope for positive future changes. Yuri grew up in the city of Zaporizhzhia. He is specialised in developing anti-discrimination campaigns, knows the importance of sexual education among youth and eagerly studies how education and art may help to combat intolerance in the future.
„Leadership for me is like an art. It is the responsibility to guide others by sharing with them my own experiences, skills, as well as the dedication of my time, energy, and emotional intelligence so that they can realize their full potential, both personally and professionally.”